Questions to Ask a Divorce Mediator at Your Consultation
- Divorce is Simple
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When you’re preparing for a divorce, choosing the right mediator can make all the difference. The consultation is your chance to ask important questions and make sure you understand what’s included, what to expect, and how your agreement will be handled. At Divorce is Simple, we believe transparency is key — and we encourage every couple to ask these essential questions before they begin.
1. What’s Included in the Mediation Package?
Not all mediation services are the same. Ask your mediator to outline exactly what’s included in their package. At Divorce is Simple, our all-inclusive approach covers everything from financial disclosure and mediation sessions to drafting a legally binding Separation Agreement. We believe you shouldn’t have to worry about surprise add-ons or extra hourly fees.
2. Will My Agreement Be Legally Binding?
This is one of the most important questions to ask. Many low-cost or DIY mediation services don’t result in a binding legal document — which can create problems down the road. Our team ensures your final Separation Agreement is legally binding, reviewed through Independent Legal Advice (ILA), and ready to submit for your divorce or court filings if needed.
3. Is a Separation Agreement Included?
Some mediators only help you reach a verbal agreement or summary. Make sure yours includes a written Separation Agreement, as this is what gives your settlement legal force. At Divorce is Simple, every couple receives a professionally drafted Separation Agreement that reflects their unique parenting, financial, and support arrangements.
4. Do You Provide Independent Legal Advice (ILA)?
Independent Legal Advice is an important step in making your agreement legally enforceable. It ensures both parties understand the terms and sign voluntarily. Our packages include ILA for both spouses, making the process simple, compliant, and stress-free.
5. Are There Any Hidden Fees?
Transparency matters. Ask whether the quoted price includes taxes, legal fees, and any filing costs. At Divorce is Simple, we offer flat-rate pricing — no hourly billing, no surprises, no fine print.
6. Does the Agreement Cover Co-Parenting and Custody?
If you have children, you’ll want to know that your parenting plan and custody arrangements will be properly included. We guide you through decisions around custody, access, parenting time, and co-parenting communication — ensuring everything is handled respectfully and with the children’s best interests in mind.
7. How Do You Handle Financial Division (NFP)?
“NFP” stands for Net Family Property, the calculation used to divide marital assets and debts fairly. Ask how your mediator handles this part of the process. Our mediators help you gather the necessary information and ensure a clear, accurate, and equitable financial division.
Final Thoughts
Asking the right questions can help you choose a mediator who not only fits your needs but also protects your peace of mind. Divorce doesn’t have to be complicated or combative — with the right team, it can be simple, fair, and affordable.
At Divorce is Simple, we’re proud to offer all-inclusive, flat-rate divorce mediation packages that include everything from mediation and financial disclosure to ILA and legally binding Separation Agreements.
Book your consultation today and discover how we make divorce simple — not stressful.
