Is There a Best Month to Divorce?

At Divorce is Simple, one of the most common questions we’re asked is:“Is there a best time of year to get divorced?”

While there’s no perfect month to end a marriage, the timing of your divorce can absolutely impact your experience — both emotionally and practically. Whether you’re thinking about your children’s routines, financial planning, or your emotional readiness, there are a few seasonal trends and considerations that may help you move forward with greater clarity.

January: “Divorce Month” for a Reason

January is often known as “Divorce Month.” After the holidays, many people feel a renewed motivation to make important life changes. The emotional and financial pressure of the season can highlight unresolved issues, and the New Year offers a natural window for a fresh start.

Pros:

• New Year, new beginnings

• Easier to plan around the tax year

• A surge in motivation to take control of your future

Consider:

This can be a busy time for the courts and legal professionals, so early planning is key.

Spring and Summer: A Calmer Transition for Families

Spring and summer are often preferred times to begin the divorce process, particularly for couples with school-aged children. With school out and schedules more flexible, summer provides a natural opportunity for smoother transitions — whether that means moving, adjusting co-parenting plans, or simply creating space to process the changes.

Pros:

• Less disruption to children’s school routines

• More flexibility in schedules for mediation sessions

• Extra time to prepare for fall

  Consider:

  Summer schedules fill quickly — it’s wise to book your mediation or legal appointments early.

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Fall: Back to Routine, Back to Reality

As families return to school and work routines, some couples find that the structure reveals long-standing tensions. September through November often sees a rise in new divorce inquiries as people feel ready to take the next step before the holiday season begins.

Pros:

• Easier scheduling with a set routine

• Time to finalise agreements before year-end

• Less pressure than peak summer months

Consider:

Emotional stress can build as the holidays approach — the earlier you begin, the better.

December: Delays for the Holidays

December tends to be the quietest month for divorce filings. Many couples choose to wait until the holidays are over, especially when children are involved. The priority is often protecting holiday traditions and minimizing emotional disruption.

Pros:

• Maintains peace during family gatherings

• Offers time for reflection before making a final decision

• Avoids having legal matters tied up with holiday stress

Consider:

Delaying too long can prolong uncertainty and conflict. If you’re ready, don’t wait for a new calendar year to start fresh.

So… When Is the Best Time to Divorce?

There’s no one-size-fits-all answer. The best time to divorce is when you feel prepared — emotionally, mentally, and financially. What matters most is that the process is handled with care, transparency, and support.

At Divorce is Simple, we’re here when you are ready. Whether you're just exploring your options or ready to move forward, we offer complete support — from guided financial disclosure and mediation to drafting your Separation Agreement and filing your Divorce Decree.

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Disclaimer: This blog post is intended for informational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. For specific legal guidance, please consult a qualified family lawyer. This is not intended to be used as advice.

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